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Grinds My Gears

There's something I never got about dudes.. Help me out here guys! Really. HELP.ME.OUT!

Why is it that if a guy is seemingly "into" you and you are clearly NOT on the same vibes as they are, they get to be extremely annoying. Example, you happen to see the person multiple times a day and every single time you guys cross paths there ALWAYS has to be a greeting. Like honestly, I JUST passed you TWO minutes ago. Chill out.

Another thing, why do the "hellos" have to be all touchy feely? UMM, no. A simple "hi" would have sufficed, thanks. Then after all is said and done and you verbally make it known (as if my standoff-ish body language wasn't enough of a clue) that I do not want you touching me like that, you proceed to act like a major D-Bag by getting upset!

UHH.. Did I miss something?!

Literally, passing you straight the next day like you did THEM something wrong!

*Hold up*..

Excuse me, but I thought that it was MY body and MY personal space that you were violating?! Or did I get that mixed up??? Are the days that we read about in Novels just sooo extremely farfetched that modern day "men" simply don't have a clue!?


Honestly, is not cute for a grown ass dude to be all up in his feelings after you cut off his advances of being all up in your space, when you were obviously never interested to begin with! 

NOT CUTE.


I'll refer to a previous  blog post.. Don't be a DICK!


 




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